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Writer's pictureTanya Hyde

FAQ YOU!

I'm always happy to answer questions about wrestling on Twitter, and if you want to go in-depth then you can chat to me for longer or even get a little bit spicy, but for those times when I'm playing with my cat or hiking a mountain, here's some of the questions I get asked most often:


What's a session with you like?


Inimitable. Each session is different, and as my regulars can attest, my exploration of body to body power dynamics will change depending on my mood meaning that no two sessions are alike.


It's not easy to describe - but that's the elixir.


I love a range of moves and holds and I'm happy to explore your favourites with you. I love the power and control I can exact over you, and not just with my physical domination, over 14 years of experience, strength and technique - but I love to play with your desire to surrender, buried as it may be.


I love sporty matches where we test our bodies, our limits, the high that seeing who is the better opponent creates.


There are so many ways to do this.


I'll be publishing some testimonials soon so you don't have to take my word for it.


If you are new to wrestling, you might enjoy my blog post on what a first time is like.


If you have further questions - please do reach out.


What is WAM? What substances are okay?


WAM is so fun. It stands for Wet and Messy and is also known as Sploshing. I've always loved oil matches. In an oil match you're both so slippery there's no friction and it creates situations where you can't keep holds on so the fight changes dimension.


Mud wrestling is also fun, I'd love to have a proper outdoor grapple in mud - I keep trying to find a willing photographer so I can show you what I mean!


I found out about WAM out of the blue, a friend of mine asked me to present an award at Messtival - the UK Film Festival for Sploshing. It was an honour and the penny dropped about why I liked oil matches so much! Since then, I've had sessions in gunge, custard, chocolate sauce, jelly - it's something that you definitely can't take too seriously and is crazy fun.


Where are you located, will you be in my area?


I have matches out of The Submission Room in Seven Sisters in London. It's my little home away from home and I love it. I'm going to be in Manchester more over the next year so will be dropping in on the legendary Wrestling Factory more often.


I went to Edinburgh in 2022 and had such a warm reception that I do plan to go back.


If you are interested in my non-London locations, the best thing to do is sign up to my newsletter and check your desired city - the more of you I know are keen, the more likely I am to come back!


There is an Other category for those of you a little further afield. I'm going to create some better way of you telling me where you'd like me to come at some point as if there's enough of you, I'll definitely pay a visit!


Alternatively, if you're interested in four hours of mat time (or more) over two consecutive days in the UK, I might be interested in coming to you as a special request. Just fill out my booking form if having me all to yourself for a little longer tickles your fancy. Combine it with a social date and it could be a very special few days indeed.




Do you take PayPal or bank transfer?


No.


You can pay me through ko-fi and SimplyBook. Both of these platforms use Stripe which is a globally trusted organisation and takes a wide range of cards. The only details I get of yours is your email and it turns up on your bank account discreetly.


Alternatively, you can use crypto, just ask for my Wallet ID.


I also accept Amazon Giftcard - just address it to wrestletanya@gmail.com and you can pay me through Thone upon discussion.


If you'd like to pay in cash, I accept PaySafeCard upon agreement. You just pay cash at your nearest outlet and send me the code.


PayPal is very hot on freezing your accounts if you violate their Acceptable Use policy. I had a significant amount of money frozen for 7 months which I only got back after a lot of wrangling with customer services and a lot of hoops. It's prolific across the industry and it's not worth the headache.


Also, people have been subject to scams, as unless you fraudulently select that it's going to 'Friends and Family', the buyer has the ability to get the money refunded after services have been provided.


Bank transfer will release my details to you, and while I trust you enough to get hot and sweaty with me - I don't trust you that much! If you're booking through The Submission Room, you can pay a bank transfer to Pippa.


Pretty much all modern services expect deposits if you're not paying in full in advance. It's standard practice and asking to not pay a deposit is deeply disrespectful.


You're asking me to make time for you in my busy diary, with no accountability. You're taking my mental and emotional energy, and as my job, I'm factoring your payment into my personal finances. I understand life happens. It happens to us all, but if you're not willing to appreciate my time by financially backing your promises, then you're not a person I want to engage with.


I love my job, I love my opponents, I love talking to you - but when we get people disrespecting us day in and day out, it makes me want to hang up my boots and not both - and that just spoils it for everyone.


Thanks for understanding.



Do you send pics and videos?


I ADORE getting photoshoots - and photographers seem to love working with me. I don't offer clips, but if you want to get to know each other virtually, I do offer a vanilla video chat service.


This is great if you want to talk about wrestling, find out more about me, or just enjoy spending time with a beautiful woman while you kick back with a drink.


I'm also open to you showing me what you got! We all like to be admired so if you'd like to show me a little more of yourself then why don't you tell me what you'd like and we'll see if I'm up for that. My online limits are the same as my in-person ones for this - no willies please! I'm sure yours is lovely, but that's not my style.


For those of you who like specific outfits, or want to have a closer look at specific parts of me - and you want to enjoy it at a high quality for months (if not years) to come, why not commission a custom photoshoot? Send me a brief and we can co-create something beautiful for you to keep hold of.


Happy with an everyday shot? I also offer a bespoke selfie with the kit I already own and they're only a tenner (£10). Send in a brief and if I find it hot, I'll wait till I'm in the mood and send you something within the week.


JUST LAUNCHED - a Spicy DM Chat... with photos! I'm still working out a fair price for this, but for everyone who books an hour or more, I'll get myself all sexy for our chat (yum) and send you a few pics as we progress... all within my IRL limits of course - ahahaha hope you didn't think you were going to get away with that!


Do you accept gifts?


I don't think anyone in the history of questions has ever said no to this.


  1. Send me moolah directly

Cash is just useful you know? I can put it towards all sorts of things and it's very flexible for me to invest in what I need right now. It takes a little bit of stress off that any freelancer can appreciate not having a stable income and is a wonderful way just to send a little thanks for my presence in your life.

  1. Buy me a beer

You're going to have to keep an eye on twitter for this one. I don't go to Weatherspoons often but they have a loophole in their app where I post up my pub and table and if you download the app you can send me anything on their menu - YUM!

  1. Pick something off my Throne Wishlist

It's fun updating my Wishlist and thinking about all the sexy things I could wrestle in, wear or just generally enjoy in my life. You can also Suggest gifts and there's a Surprise function now I haven't quite figured out - so if you want to get creative and have something delivered to my doorstep - why not send me a gift?

  1. Send me an Amazon Giftcard

Some of you have said the above don't work in your area, so you can send me an Amazon Giftcard to wrestletanya@gmail.com I accept other giftcards, so please do ask me if you prefer to gift a store card - or you can just send me one and I'll let you know what I treat myself to!




Still got questions?


Just DM me on twitter, no question is too small or silly, and I love hearing from you.

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