If you know, you know. If you don't, then that's a very unhelpful statement.
Every session is completely bespoke, I take great pleasure in hearing about people's fantasies, understanding what it is in particular that makes you tick and blowing your mind for each and every session you book, whether it's an online one in in-person.
If you've never had a session before, I have devised a fairly good format for first timers which ensures you stay safe, understand the rules and learn the fabulous culture we pride ourselves in at The Submission Room. It allows you to gently explore what you like and what you don't and through the session as we get to know each other, I'll lead us into an experience that we'll both leave buzzing with for days after.
Here's my formula
Before Your First Session
Excitement and nerves use the same neural pathways - did you know that? Happens for a lot of stuff actually. Very efficient. It's why you can take paracetamol for heartbreak. What I'm trying to say is, nerves are fine. Come nervous. Come as you are. No need to hide that. It's okay to get excited, to lose your words and be worried that you're going to disappoint or that it's not going to live up to your hopes.
Three things here:
I offer a low price chat session especially for you. We can talk about anything from the weather to my cat to what a session might be like. We can discuss boundaries, safety, hygiene - whatever is on your mind. It's really nice to get to know each other first and to get a little bit more information. I also offer in-person socials, so we can grab a coffee before the session if you prefer to meet in person and connect for longer than the 10 minutes we have at the start of a session.
You might be worried about picking the right person. Hey - it might turn out that I'm not the grrl of your dreams - and that's okay! There are so many different wrestlers out there of every type imaginable. It's why we're friends rather than competitors. When you're just starting out and are trying to figure out what is what, you might not know what you're looking for or you think you're after one thing, but then find out you're actually after another. That's perfectly fine. I of course pride myself on giving spectacular sessions, but if it turns out a petite girl next door throwing you around the room didn't do it for you like you thought it would - that's totally okay. This is a fun journey and you're not going to make the 'right' decision every time so why not relax and enjoy the learning process - how often in life do we do something completely new, eh?
Fantasy is very different from reality. That's okay. Both are great. However, you can't experience what the reality is through thought experiments! You're just going to have to take the plunge and book. It's okay though, I know it an be a lot, and I'm always very impressed when someone stands up for what they want and invests in their own happiness - even if it's a bit overwhelming. Filling out a Request form doesn't commit you to anything. (and you can always join my newsletter or keep looking at my services until you're ready)
The Start
After you've paid the deposit with Pippa, you'll be given information about everyone's favourite wrestling cave. You'll turn up on time, I'll let you through the kissing gate of a door and as you squeeze round the corner (not up the stairs) you'll see me, usually cheerful, always welcoming.
You'll settle the outstanding balance with me either through cash or through ko-fi which keeps payments anonymous. All I see is your email and it appears on your statement as 'ko-fi', 'donation' or possibly 'twitter'.
You'll get to know my favourite shade of green in the welcome area, and we'll chat a little. You'll go get changed in the shower room and then we'll have a little discussion about injuries or boundaries for both of us. We'll discuss where we're happy to touch and be touched and if you have any particular preferences or directions you'd like to explore, I'm all ears.
I don't touch willies, you can wear whatever you are comfortable in, so long as it covers your groin securely.
To the mats!
Then we ascend to the mat room with towels and water. Sometimes I'm in the mood for music, sometimes not, I'll set my alarm and we'll kneel opposite each other.
If you're interested in something more sensual, I might start off with some touch, feeling the shape your body, your skin, your hair, allowing you to feel my feminine softness, my curves and the firm muscle underneath.
To begin, we'll go through popular moves. I'll direct you clearly how to put your body, and I'll then pin you in those moves. You will then try to escape, and as soon as you have, we break and reset.
If you enjoy sinking into an experience, I might keep you in moves, introduce you to pressure-to-pain holds, show you how submission moves work.
In our first session, no is always no, pause is always pause, and stop is always stop. Things can be overwhelming at first and I need to learn how to read you. If you enjoy begging for mercy and me not giving in, that's something I'm happy to explore (with safe words) in a subsequent experience as it can be quite fun.
If this is a deal-breaker for you, let me know so I can recommend you on to other people.
If you want to learn how to fight safely, after I've gone through the most popular moves, we'll reverse. I'll show you how to put the same moves on me. I'll give you tips and techniques so you can feel how moves work and why they are effective. Then I'll escape and you can experience what it's like to be overpowered and unable to stop me.
If there is a large size difference between us, I'll show you how the 'semi' in semi-comp works. It allows us both to have a great time, but shows you how to limit yourself so you can enjoy the experience fully without injury.
If you're enjoying the surrender, then I might continue, start linking moves together and make you my plaything.
If you like a more sporty match, then after I'm happy that you're safe, we'll have a mini match or two.
And then...
Depending on how long we've been enjoying each other, we may circle back round to questions you have, focussing on moves and holds that have come up, or anything you want to experience more deeply.
When the timer goes off, we break, and you go have a shower while I clean the mats.
We have a brief chat about the experience and then you head off to ruminate, contemplate and maybe other things ending in ate.
If you want to have a proper debrief, process the experience and enjoy my company then you can extend our session (with advanced notice) with a drink, or we can head into town and enjoy what the city has to offer.
Booking with me
When you book with me, you'll always get a friendly, professional, responsive and welcoming attitude off the mats with a privacy first approach.
On the mats you'll feel trust that I'm risk aware, have a keen eye for the safety of us both, am respectful of limits and always put communication first.
You also know that I understand and adore the psychological side of combat and surrender. I understand the chemistry involved and the power I have as a woman. So whilst I will dominate your body, I am also working with your mind and soul...
And the more you book, the better it gets...
Want some? Get in touch.
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